

Single point focus and
dedication
What would you have done
if you were JK Rowling and when you got rejected 12 times for your book? What
would you have done if you were Jack Maa who suffered endless failures? What
would you have done if you were Dr. Kalam whose dream of becoming a fighter pilot
didn't materialize?
It's easy for us to want to be in their shoes
when they succeed, but it's not easy when you get rejected. Imagine their
struggling days. What if they had given up?
What do you need for success?
Its single point focus and dedication. The
world may not believe you, but your self belief should drive you. Sometimes
your dream makes no sense to others but it should be everything for you.
We have one life, one single life which can be
taken away at any moment. Are we making it count? We get bothered by what
others feel, our decisions depend on what others decide, we get afraid to go
against the norms built by society. Ask yourself if this all makes sense?
You decide to go for CA
then you fear about failures, you get afraid of what would happen if you fail,
you get petrified of getting aged. Ask yourself if this is how to live your
life? Will you be able to succeed like this?
What
suggestion would you give to anyone having a mindset which you have?
The problem is we fear everything. You are a
girl but social norms say you are weak, is it true? You are 27 still giving
attempts, social norms say you should get married, have kids, forget about your
career. What suggestion will you give to anyone else who comes to you with this
problem?
A person can start at any
age and still be successful; you can get married even at 40 and still remain
happily married.
Just because you are not fitting into the
standards set up by the society doesn't mean you are wrong and
cannot be successful.
If you look at the history books and the
people who made it big in life are those who challenged those norms. Society is
made by us and not vice-versa.
Don't lose heart if people
say you are not what others expect you to be. Until and unless you are not
hurting anyone, you are not doing anything wrong. Colonel Sanders started KFC when
he was 65 years old, he lived till he was 90 years old, Anita Kapdi started her
CA at the age of 48 and completed it at the age of 52, CA SD Bala who is
co-author of CA Final SFM book published by Snowwhite, started his CA at the
age of 56 and became CA 13 days before he attained 60 years of age. There are
endless examples who didnt let society narrate them what they should do or what
they should be doing.
If you are clear in your
thought process about what you are doing then nothing will stop you from
fulfilling your goal. When you start thinking about what society thinks then it
is only going to create confusion in your mind which will mess all things.
If you want to do something then just to do it and be dedicated to your goal, this is what single point focus and dedication means.
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