How to pick yourself up again
after failure? I know many of you will be in this zone. When you work so hard
and yet success eludes you its obvious to get disheartened; its obvious to get
depressed; its obvious to doubt about your abilities.
CA is not only about hard
work, its about how much mentally strong you are. It actually prepares
you to face the world where you will be tested every day.
Believe me, the
confidence which one gets after overcoming the setbacks is much much more as
compared to not failing at all. You learn to value your success.
So, how actually to start
over again? The answer is focus on the goal rather than distractions. Do you have time now to think about what happened or should you
start your preparations now? Smell the coffee. See the faces of your near and
dear ones who have high expectations from you that you will clear your exam
this time; who are giving you this much time to overcome the failures. Are you
fulfilling their expectations? Its your duty to give them the results they want
for the everything they are giving you.
If you feel yourself caged in
the four walls of your room or home, then this success will be your ticket to
freedom. Are you doing enough to get that freedom? Success has to be earned,
you wont get success by sitting and thinking about your failures, you will have
to work for this. Dont blame others for your plight. Its your life and its you
who have to make it better from bitter. You have been given a chance to change
your destiny; to change failure into success; to be better than the last
attempt. Value it, dont waste it.
You are not only wasting this
time; you are wasting an opportunity with each passing moment. Wake up. You
have failed in an exam and not in life, but you will surely fail in life if you
continue living in your failure. Get over it, the failure has gone. Its high
time to get back. Stop victimizing yourself and work hard to change your
destiny.
Start by preparing a chapter
so thoroughly that you will be able to answer whatever comes from it. Give
yourself that confidence. Join some test series. It will help you prepare better;
it will also take away that exam fear.
You will have to work hard.
Theres no other option.
So pick up the books again,
work like never before, grab this opportunity and just finish it off. Its your
time to change the failure into success and only you can do it because you have
to do it. You are not born to be ordinary, you are born to succeed. Yes, you
couldnt get the required results last time, but you are surely going to get
them this time by your constant hard work.
Go and succeed.
(CA Anurag)
Wouldn't it be a good idea to create a course?
